If you're holding it all together while quietly feeling overwhelmed — this is for you.
You're capable. You've handled hard things before. But this season is different — and you don't have to figure it out alone in a notebook at midnight.
After divorce
You're untangling accounts, retitling property, and rebuilding a financial life that was always shared. The checklist tells you what to handle first — and what can wait.
After loss
There are forms, deadlines, and decisions you never expected to make. The checklist organizes them in plain language — so grief doesn't have to share space with confusion.
Approaching retirement
The shift from earning to drawing-down changes everything. The checklist walks you through the order of decisions — pensions, benefits, withdrawals — so nothing gets missed.
I'm Kimberley — and I built this for the woman I was a few years ago.
At Rabbit Hill Financial, I work with women navigating divorce, widowhood, and retirement. The pattern I see, over and over: smart, capable women carrying it alone, pretending they're fine, terrified of making one wrong decision during the hardest season of their lives.
This checklist is the first thing I share with every new client. It's the calm starting point — the one that takes the weight off your shoulders and puts it on paper, where it belongs.
We stabilize the person before we optimize the money. Always in that order.